The perfect person is in your mind. This person is designed by you. He or she looks, acts, walks and talks the way you imagine. The challenge is getting this person out of your mind and into your reality. The reality- you can’t. There’s one Creator of mankind. It’s impossible to create this individual. (We can produce others, but we can not create them. If you think so, try)
One day, if you find someone close to your perfect image, he or she will never add up to everything you desired. You’ll find this person will fall short of some of your expectations, either by words, actions or deeds. The reason- this person can’t follow the scripts written in your mind.
You could miss out on an ideal mate because you’ve chased an illusion of the image of perfection. The reality- we fall short of perfection and the person you’ve imagined does not exist.
If you do not fail to see things this way, whenever you finally decide to let go of the ideal of “the perfect one”, you might find yourself older, alone, or you’ve let the ideal person walk away.
Allow your potential mate to be unique. Appreciate the characteristics you were drawn to in him or her.
Instead of looking for someone to fulfill your script, learn to love and see them perfectly fine in his or her uniqueness.