The World isn’t Changing

Peaceful Journey Mindset Strategies

Today I heard someone say the world isn’t changing,

it is the people.

This saying is true.

It’s the people who are changing in this world.

So, I have a question.

What type of person are you?

Do you make a difference?

Do you impact the world in an empowering way?

What deposits are you making?

If the world was a reflection of you

what would it look like?

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Get to Percolating

Peaceful Journey Mindset Strategies

Percolate

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A hill of beans will mount up unless you get things percolating.

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So will unsettled issues…

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They’re mount up to us against them….

if the tug of war is not settled…

So, get to percolating

percolate

Blow a little steam, let it out!

Then, end

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with a little coffee and chill.

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Stand Up

It takes courage to stand up

and do what is right

instead of hiding behind cowardliness.

It takes courage to speak up

and say what is right

instead of remaining silent.

It takes courage

to do the right thing

instead of rendering evil

with your own hands.

It takes courage

to act with integrity

instead of acting immoral with malice.

It takes courage

to embrace and respect others differences,

instead of resisting and despising others 

because of their differences.

It takes courage

to be different instead of conforming to fit in.

It takes courage to stand alone

instead of standing with others standing for wrong.

It takes courage to be brave,

instead of acting in cowardice ways.

Stand strong,

Be brave,

not cowardice!

Three Line Tales – Week 228

The sign clearly says “No parking. 24 hour active drive way.

It does not say, I have no right to take a little rest right here.

Mine your business, as for your concerns, I’ve got more than my foot on and off the ground, I own this property.

Photo credit: Juan Ordonez via Unsplash

Already Gone

Disclaimer- I claim no copyrights to the song/or video concept in the above video

The artist Faith Evans released a song entitled “Gone Already” in 2010. Since then, Kelly Clarkson, and a few others, released a song entitled “Gone Already.” In 2010, when I heard Faith Evan’s song, at first, the title caught my attention.

Then, after listening to the medley, I really liked what I heard. But, then, after listening closer to the lyrics and understanding its meaning, I was in engaged in examining the concept of being in a relationship but emotionally disconnected. We do this more often than we think.

Unfortunately, the disconnection is a reality in many relationships. Both parties are either in denial or they know there’s a disconnect, but they don’t know what to do next.

In some instances, they’re perplexed how or when the disconnect occurred. An emotional disconnect occurs on other levels like in relationships between parents and children too. If we’re not careful, we can occupy the same space and because of technology, work schedules, and social obligations outside of home, the communication is weaken.

Now, going back to Evan’s “Gone Already,” there’s a reference in the song to “loving someone who hasn’t taken the time to get to know you, but you go through the motions” these aren’t the exact words, but this is the essence of what the lyrics in one of the lines is saying. Evans goes on further to say, she felt like “a dead man walking and everything was becoming monotonous.”

Some may argue, in regards to committed relationships, particularly marriage, relationships aren’t all about emotions. I agree, relationships require more than emotions to sustain their commitment. 

But, how is a marriage sustained without interaction or some form of equal exchange, especially in this Technological society? One might give his or her best, but if there’s no reciprocal exchange or validation of the relationship, the couple is only co-existing not experiencing fulfillment.

Remember, entering into a relationship at some point, both of you were “feeling each other”, or there was something which drew you together. The sense of connection to the other’s vibe and the interaction were engaging. More than likely, you couldn’t wait to be in the other’s presence.


Well, this is the type of existence and interaction I’m referring to. No, you don’t need to stay in each other’s presence all the time. But, you do need to maintain a level of communication and interaction which requires talking and listening to each other. In other words, be “present.” Don’t “check out” on each other. Communication isn’t limited to couples but in other situations as well.


As in the words of the song, what about you? Think of a relationship or situation you are in, are you present or already gone? Are you in the moment. How is your exchange and interaction with your significant other or with others Are you genuinely interested or disengaged, do you lack interest when the communication is not about you?

Just Something to think about.